Many things have changed in the modern world, especially the way people thinks. As the time passed by, societies become more open minded and starting to leave what they consider as an old tradition. One of them is virginity.
Many guys face this emotional challenge early on in their dating lives before they have had any sexual experience with women and when they are still virgins. They start going out with a girl, they start liking her and develop feelings for her. For one reason or another they assume that the girl is also a virgin.
The issue of virginity is a thorny and complicated one, but as usual at Ask Love Dr we are not afraid to express our opinion on untouchable issues. There is a reason the are very few books on virginity even though it is a popular issue. Variant opinions with regard to definition of virginity has been given, and also views held by different religion, culture and societies makes this topic more complicated and interesting.
Let's say you've been dating someone a while and you're discussing the prospect of having sex for the first time together. You're naturally feeling pretty excited to take things to the next level, and the two of you are talking about how it will go down. So far, so good!
There are some girls that you should just never date. These girls are either too bossy, too possessive or total psychos! However, when it comes to the subject of dating virgins, men are undecided.
I waited a lot longer than everyone else to give it up. I did have my fair share of douchebags, of course, but I weeded out a lot of them pretty quickly. I learned how to keep my self-worth intact.
I lost my virginity at 24 when I moved in with my now-husband. My goal was to wait until marriage, but at that time in my life, I knew in my gut, and in my vagina, that it was right. Let me qualify by saying: My brand of virginity had a lot of gray areas.
What is there to control anyhow? You're a virgin, so all that worrying about condoms, birth control pills, the rhythm method, safer positions gravity makes it so you can't get pregnant if the girl is on top, obviouslypraying real hard, and other effective methods of birth control need not concern you. Honestly, these things can all be pricey and stressful, so it must be nice to not have to fret over such things.