Plus, if you subscribe to the Malcolm Gladwell 10,hour theory, many of us are already experts in the field. In terms of pleasure, in terms of harder, stronger, and more life-affirming orgasms, how much room for improvement could there really be? We're here to tell you that the answer is a lot.
Not all guys are obsessed with sex. Some of my friends and I would honestly rather have their football team win than get laidare too lazy to deal with getting laid, or don't put so much stock into getting laid. But my friends and I are an abnormal lot.
A subset of these men who have sex with men, or MSM, live lives that are, in all respects other than their occasional homosexual encounters, quite straight and traditionally masculine — they have wives and families, they embrace various masculine norms, and so on. They are able to, in effect, compartmentalize an aspect of their sex lives in a way that prevents it from blurring into or complicating their more public identities. Sociologists are quite interested in this phenomenon because it can tell us a lot about how humans interpret thorny questions of identity and sexual desire and cultural expectations.
TBH, most guys won't give a flying condom about any of these—but everyone's different. You're naked, he's naked, and you're both aroused. The smells, sweat, and sounds can suddenly seem erotically charged-to you, that is.
Illustration by Eleanor Doughty. Matt didn't know it was possible for a girl to have a dick before the model pictured in his Hustler -esque mag drew seven inches. She had slipped in unannounced between the magazine's other, more typical spreads.
As I mentioned yesterdayone of the most elucidating experiences of being your boy blogger has been learning how different sex is for everyone. With this in mind, as well as the fact that my dude friends are almost rid of my annoying questions, I thought I'd let them go out with a bang. I asked them the question that not only underscores the above point, but might give you readers a glimpse into what many women really want to hear: what is the thing you love about sex the most?
Freud once called female sexuality "the dark continent," and if that's true, then male sexuality might as well be the dark planet. Because when it comes to sexmen are far from simple. As much as they may try to convince us otherwise.
So you and your boyfriend have been together for over a year now. You two have been together for so long that it really does feel like you know everything going through his head. You have become one of those annoying couples who finish each other's sentences and can sit in the car for an hour straight without talking because you know exactly what's going through each other's minds. That being said, what men think about during sex is still kind of a mystery to you, and you'd be lying if you said you weren't curious about what goes through his head from time to time.
Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. Cultural Animal.
I'm pretty sure love is the most powerful force on earth. Why else would I leave my sunny home in San Diego and my no-strings bachelorhood to move to Olympia, Washington, to be with a woman…and her seven-year-old? Back in the day, if you'd told me I'd eventually do this, I would have instructed the bartender to cut you off.